Of course, everyone reacts differently to stimulation and an anal prostate massage is not immediately to everyone's taste. This is completely normal as most people have to get used to anal sensation and stimulation first.
Tip: You will find a good introduction to the subject of anal penetration as well as a step-by-step guide in our article on anal sex for beginners.
There are also different ways to massage the G-spot of people who have a prostate. Anal masturbation can be achieved in several ways. Not only through the anus but also from the outside via the perineum. So you just have to try! And we show you how.
How to Find the Prostate?
This gland, about the size of a chestnut, can be easily felt with a finger via the rectum. The G-spot of people with a prostate is about 5-7 cm inside the anus, up the intestinal wall, so in the direction of the abdominal wall. The prostate is easily reached with a slightly curved finger pointing towards the navel with its anterior side.
The anus is easily massaged from the outside with a finger or with the tongue, so that the partner can get used to the feeling. If you use your finger, remember to put a little lubricating gel on the anus before gradually introducing the finger gently.
The Right Preparation for a Prostate Massage
Prostate Massage: Instructions for Use
There are two options for massaging the prostate – direct or indirect massage. Indirect massage is performed via the perineum, while direct massage takes place inside the anus using fingers or a sex toy.
Dr. Deep by CUPE is a prostate vibrator for beginners. Thanks to its fine shape, it can be inserted particularly well anally. Its two stimulation arms pamper the prostate simultaneously – directly from the inside and indirectly via the perineum. With its intense vibrations, it will increase your feeling of pleasure and make you sparkle with pleasure.
Indirect Prostate Massage
This area can be lightly pressed, rubbed, stroked or massaged with the fingers. You can also lightly scratch with your fingertips which can lead to intense sensations. You can simultaneously stimulate the penis and the testicles with the other hand. To do an external prostate massage, one can use a few finger vibrators to help give even more intense sensations to the other.
Direct Prostate Massage
Toys for Fingers and for Anal
You can also reach the prostate pretty well with a prostate dildo, anal dildo, or butt plug.
If the anus is already well widened in advance, a second finger can also be added to the game. The prostate can then be placed between the index and middle finger and massaged with light pressure.
Milking the Prostate
The term milking is often used in connection with prostate massage. This means that semen escapes through stimulation of the prostate even if the person does not reach orgasm. During prostate massage, the pressure in the seminal vesicle and the prostate is reduced, which leads to the effect of ejaculation without orgasm. This massage technique can delay orgasm.
Prostate Massage Aids
For the Preparations
Anal Toys for Massaging the Prostate
Hygiene after a Prostate Massage
After orgasm, the toy should be removed gently and carefully (because the anus is now particularly sensitive) and washed well with a little soap and water. For disinfection (especially of anal toys), a special toy cleaner can be used.